He’s just not that into you if he’s not asking you out. If a man is excited about a woman, he can’t stop himself— he wants more. If he’s friends with someone and attracted to her, he’s going to want to take it further. If he’s not making a move, it’s not because he is ‘scared’. The only thing he is scared of is how not attracted to you he is. He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you. He says he didn’t have a moment in his busy day to call. Rubbish! The real reason is that you are not on his mind. If a man leads you to expect he will call and then doesn’t follow through on such a little thing, he will never follow through on big things. *Be aware he is okay with the idea he is disappointing you.*
He’s just not that into you if he’s disappeared on you. When a man disappears there’s no mixed message. He’s made it clear that he’s so not into you, that he couldn’t even bother to leave you a Post-it. Don’t make contact — he’s not in hospital with amnesia! — it will only give him a chance to reject you all over again.